What is a Soul Tie?
Have you ever felt tied to someone, even after they’re no longer in your life? You might be dealing with a soul tie. Breaking off soul ties isn’t easy, but it’s necessary for growth and healing. It starts with recognizing the tie, asking for forgiveness—for yourself and the other person—and releasing the bond to God.
Speak it out: It’s a process, but with each step, you take back more of your power. Letting go allows God to bring healing and make room for what’s next in your life. You were never meant to stay bound.
Break the tie. Step into freedom.
What is a Soul Tie?
Soul ties are deep, emotional, or spiritual connections we form with someone. It’s often described as a connection that goes beyond normal relationships, forming an intense attachment. These ties can be healthy or unhealthy, depending on the nature of the relationship and the emotional, mental, or spiritual exchange involved. Soul ties can have lasting effects on our lives, influencing our thoughts, actions, and feelings long after the relationship has ended and can keep us tied to our past.
How Do We Form a Soul Tie?
Soul ties are formed in different ways, but they are most commonly linked to significant relationships. These connections can happen through:
Physical intimacy: Sexual relationships are one of the strongest ways to form a soul tie. In 1 Corinthians 6:16, Paul warns, “Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, ‘The two will become one flesh.’” This shows that physical intimacy can create a bond that goes beyond the body and affects the soul.
Emotional intimacy: Deep emotional connections, such as those formed through friendship or romantic relationships, can also create soul ties. Proverbs 18:24 speaks about a friend who “sticks closer than a brother.” Strong emotional bonds can lead to healthy soul ties, but they can also become unhealthy if the relationship turns toxic or codependent.
Spiritual exchange: We can also form soul ties through spiritual connections. When we open ourselves up spiritually to others, we share a part of our soul with them. For example, David and Jonathan in 1 Samuel 18:1 had a deep spiritual bond, described as their souls being knit together. While this was a positive soul tie, unhealthy spiritual ties can form in manipulative or abusive relationships.
How Does It Tie Into Scripture?
The Bible recognizes the existence of deep relational connections, both positive and negative. Positive soul ties, like the bond between David and Jonathan, reflect God’s desire for unity and fellowship. However, unhealthy soul ties are also acknowledged in the scriptures, especially when they become destructive. For instance, Genesis 34:2-3 speaks of Shechem, who developed a deep desire for Dinah after violating her, reflecting an unhealthy and harmful soul tie.
The Bible also warns us against being unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), cautioning against forming ties that pull us away from God’s will. These ties, whether romantic or otherwise, can lead us into bondage, keeping us from living freely in our relationship with God.
How to Break a Soul Tie?
Breaking an unhealthy soul tie requires intentional steps that involve both spiritual and emotional healing. Here’s a process that can help:
Acknowledge the tie: The first step is recognizing that the tie exists. Whether it’s a past romantic relationship, a toxic friendship, or an emotional bond that’s unhealthy, acknowledging the tie helps to begin the healing process.
Repent and pray: If the soul tie was formed through sin, such as sexual immorality or manipulation, repentance is key. Praying for God’s forgiveness and healing is essential. Ask Him to sever any spiritual and emotional connections that aren’t rooted in His will. You can reference Matthew 18:18, which speaks of binding and loosing in the spiritual realm.
Renounce and release: Verbally renounce the soul tie in prayer, asking God to break the bond. Release the person in forgiveness, even if they hurt you. Unforgiveness can keep soul ties intact.
Remove reminders: Physical objects like gifts, letters, or photos can hold emotional significance and keep the tie active. Removing these items can help break the tie.
Seek Godly counsel: Healing can sometimes require guidance from a pastor, counselor, or mentor. James 5:16 encourages us to confess our sins to one another and pray for each other so that we may be healed.
A Prayer for Breaking Off Soul Ties
Father,
I come to You today, asking for Your help to break any unhealthy connections in my life. I know that some of these ties are holding me back, and I ask for Your forgiveness for any relationship or bond that wasn’t in Your plan for me.
In Jesus’ name, I break off any unhealthy soul ties with [insert name or ‘anyone from my past’]. I release them and ask You to remove any emotional, spiritual, or physical ties that have kept me connected to them.
I forgive them, and I let go of any hurt, bitterness, or unforgiveness. Please fill me with Your peace and healing, and help me walk in the freedom You have given me.
Thank You for Your love and grace. I trust You with my heart and my future.
In Jesus’ name. Amen